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Coaching for Life! Expectations of Perfection |
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Author: Kristin S. Kopp
Coaching for Life! The Law of Attraction and Expectations of Perfection This morning I was exploring expectations of perfection.with a life coaching client. Do you have expectations of perfection? Do you think that people "Should" or "Should Not" do something? Do you hold certain people to a higher standard and forget that they too make mistakes? You know what I mean...they said something that you think they should not have, they said they would and then didn't do what they said they would do, they screwed up. This is not about people who always say the wrong thing, always do the wrong thing and never keep their word. I'm asking you about people who you've come to trust. People who are usually reliable. People who generally support your aliveness and support you in ways that are positive and meaningful. What happens when they screw up? Do you find it difficult to forgive them when they do and move on? We all get disappointed by others. We even disappoint ourselves.When we expect others to be perfect we are likely to overreact when they stumble and get offended. Who has disappointed you? Can you forgive them for their imperfection? What's it going to take for you to let them off the hook? Do you realize how much better you will feel and how much smoother life will flow when you do? Remember, the Law of Attraction will bring negative judgement into your life when you are judging others. Increase Your Peace and build strong bridges between you and the universe. Imagine the Possibilities! Kristin Coaching for Life! We get mail... Kristin, This is great, the article is right on the money and there is the meditation. I do my best never to should on myself or others since that is not moving in the right direction for growth. Good stuff and a great way to start a rainy Wednesday in KC. Barney -- Bernard ("Barney") Mayse Increase Your Peace MP3 Tags:
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